5) “A man bonds with a woman through being successful in providing for her happiness, comfort, and fulfillment.
His doubts are dispelled not primarily by what she does for him, but by how she responds to what he does for her” (p 49).
It is evidence that this man cares about her” (p 220-223).
12) “The direct way to a man’s heart is through complimenting and appreciating the things he provided.
And these characteristics can also be found in one who spends time studying over a book in a library preparing for an exam.
Why do we think that love just happens and we don’t need to prepare ourselves to be the best we can be so we can bring the best to our partner and our relationship? Avoiding each other, but in the end always coming back to each other and the conversations flow and both of you just click into place.
It is a sign of trust, goodwill, and friendship” (p 38).