It appears that this tender point of our development may lead some people into a form of emotional bonding that sets the ideal.Or maybe some just get really lucky and meet a great mate early on.
Puppy love, this isn’t, and the damage you do can be lasting.) None –not one!
—of the happy rekindlers broke up because they weren’t getting along, had different values, or had character flaws that would make the relationship unworkable.
And also, I’m back in contact with my first love, and the old-flame feelings are returning.
So—am I just fantasizing about my first love during a tough time in the current relationship, or was that love real? Chelsea Dear Chelsea—You’ve got two questions here: Whether to stay in the relationship you’re currently in, and whether re-igniting a romantic relationship with your first love is realistic.
Says Kalish, ”This fact may explain why rekindled relationships have such a good chance of success.